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Hints for the Ultimate Engagement Ring

An engagement ring is a source of joy. No man wants to purchase the engagement ring incorrectly, so help him, and yourself, out. In other words, “speak now, or forever hold your peace!” To avoid getting an engagement ring you don’t like try some of these hints and give him a clue.

Window Gazing (or Internet Browsing)
This is an especially good way to go. If his eyes glaze over, you know that he is probably not quite ready for the big plunge yet. However, if your engagement has been talked about, he will be keen to get some ideas. Looking at what suits your finger and budget is a practical course to take. At least now he will know whether you favor a solitaire, 3 stones, pave setting, or another engagement ring entirely. Make sure that he does have some clue as to the styles, metals, and settings that you prefer. You may also like to point out the engagement rings you really don’t care for. For an online resource, we’ve heard very good things about Blue Nile.

A Joint Effort
For the couple who likes to do everything together, look at various engagement ring styles together and decide as a team what you both like and don’t. This allows input from the both of you, and will ensure an engagement ring that both of you love.

Friends and Family
Some savvy guys may seek assistance from a sister or good friend, if they feel they can trust them to keep a secret. Make sure those close to you that he may ask really do know your style. Tell them if you are unsure.

Casually Point Out
While reading mags or surfing the Net, you can try and show him what you like. “Isn’t that a fabulous engagement ring that so and so got? Take a look at this photo.” If it’s online, then either send him the link to the story, photo or web site – make it easy on him. If’ it’s a magazine, then leave it hanging around your coffee table or kitchen counter for a while.

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2 Comments on “Hints for the Ultimate Engagement Ring”

• Becky August 24th, 2009 5:21 pm

  Yes, the man needs to read this, and all of us girl’s need to do all we can to get what we want-lol

• Sandy August 24th, 2009 5:16 pm

  WOW,the Rock-Rock’s! Love this post!!

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