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Destination Weddings – Bridesmaid Considerations

Showing appreciation to your wedding party is a must, especially when they are willing to travel hundreds if not thousands of miles to bear with you.

1. Go easy on the extra expenses — two hundred dollar heels or a designer gown is simply unnecessary and unreasonable for a bridesmaid who’s so giving of her time and finances. If asking your wedding party to travel for your union, be flexible on the actual attire for the day. Consider allowing each lady to choose her own attire, with your approval of course. Or plan a shopping day when you arrive at your destination to find the perfect dresses. A lightweight sundress for the beach is the perfect compliment for the day or a chic vintage cocktail dress would be perfect when marrying in Europe. No matter what, get creative on ways to cut costs for your attendants’ attire.
2. A Spa Day Guys and Dolls — whether it’s golfing for the guys or a full on pamper fest for the ladies, treat your attendants to a day of bonding and relaxation in your destination of choice. After all, it’s their vacation too.
3. Please don’t expect those extra’s — don’t put added stress on your bridal party for extras like an over-the-top bachelorette party in Vegas or a lavish bridal shower. Let them off easy by hinting that simple get-togethers will do for any pre-wedding celebrations and demand no gifts from attendants who are already dishing out lots of cash.
4. Upgrades a winner with all — if your budget allows, consider contacting the hotel where your attendants are staying and upgrade their rooms. Whether you give them an ocean view or complimentary breakfast in bed every morning, they will definitely feel your love and appreciation.
5. Welcome them with Grace and Style — definitely consider gift baskets for your bridal party, if for no one else. Fill it with all the goodies they will need throughout their stay. When going tropical, give them sunblock, lip balm, after sun lotion, waterproof cameras and other treats that will get them beach ready. If heading off to wintery climes, a lush scarf, hot cocoa with marshmallows and extra thick socks are perfect.
6. Let’s Spoil the Family — if your attendants are traveling with their spouses or children, be sure to do something extra special for the family. In Hawaii, set up lei making classes for the kids, while sending your attendants and significant others off for duo massages. In Mexico, set up a private dinner in seaside cabanas for each couple.
7. Make it effortless — whatever happens, make the travel plans for your wedding party as easy as possible. Have your wedding planner or travel agent do all of the footwork, researching the best accommodations and fun activities each attendant might enjoy. Also, don’t forget to provide an itinerary for each member of your bridal party so they can be plan for their trip accordingly.
8. Down time a must — when planning the week’s celebrations, don’t forget to allow each attendant some down time. Give them the opportunity to explore the location on their own and partake in activities that you may not have incorporated into the week’s events.

No matter what, showing care and consideration for each person in your out-of-town wedding party will help you create the memories that will last a lifetime, not just for you, but for them as well.

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